The Institute of Kings and Priests
Apostle Shone Bagley, Sr.
Ph.D. of Divinity/ Published Writer
Shone Bagley, Sr.
She looks at him with the thought of being a great lover to him… strong shoulders and back… a tight stomach and a wide chest. He would be a great lover to please… in return, she wants him to love her… to be a man…. Her fantasy of her dreams.
But when she lays with him, yes she pleases him and yes he pleases her but when words are exchanged, the thought of walking out anytime is there… because she can please any man and he can please any of the other lonely women.
From pleasing to keeping are two classes all together. A harlot looks to please but a Ruth was looking to keep. First to the ladies –
A man who looks at you as their first, for the moment, would at a gesture love you or hate you. And depending on the upbringing of this man, will determine how long he would have a concubine or harlot and look at you as second or not look at you at all.
And if you get him by your breasts or backside then that is what is the glue between you and him. Show what your momma gave ya, but your momma never taught you how to keep him. What are the basics of keeping a man? To understand this is to understand the two types of women… the ones you can take home to momma and the others you cannot take home to momma.
This means the first thing you must understand in keeping a man is what you present to him. As a harlot or of power are the only ways, and PLEASE do NOT confuse the two. The harlot has power over a man’s hormones but the woman of power has power over his soul. Look at Proverbs and see all that she does for her family, and herself. She is of power… all that she is expresses power.
The second thing you need to understand in keeping a man is how you see him. A man is a creature who is cursed by God, but a god is he who was formed and God breathed into his nostrils. What I mean is this: When God formed Adam and breathed into Adam making him a living soul… Satan, when Satan looks at Adam, Satan sees god. Satan knows that Adam has the image just like God and Satan knows that Adam has dominion as God, therefore when Satan looks at Adam he sees god, or better stated a Child of God. Your man is a descendant from Adam… because your man is a living soul. Therefore, if Satan sees your man as a god, why don’t you?
The third thing you need to understand in keeping a man is how you help him. What I mean is, if GOD formed god and your man came from god, then is your sanctuary (your home) of such that fits your god? And when your god or you call on GOD your Father, when he comes to his and your sanctuary will GOD be at home? Does your home and you hold to the standard of Proverbs 31?
Every successful man is successful because of a woman – from the mother to the wife. But the success is determined on the ability of what God gave to each of us. The fourth thing you need to understand is the ability of your man. If your man has the ability of 1 talent and you think he should be a 10 talent man, you will run him CRAZY trying to keep up with you. On the other hand, if he has the 10 talent ability and you treat him as a two talent man he will leave you for the first woman who helps him as a 10 talent man. Be a help-meet to the ability that God made him.
To know your man is to know your man is simple–a little sex, a little attention. But, to keep him is to put him first as God placed him first. Anything less than that… the feeling of being used and mistreated.
NOTE: this is for a normal type of man. Next week I will address the man for a good woman. If he is not ready to settle down… don’t force the square into the circle. Call for specifics if you need help understanding…
—– to be continued —–
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Apostle Shone Bagley, Sr.
Ph.D. of Divinity
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